The following 5 minute video by Dr. Jeff Mayfield talks about 1 Cor. 13:3 and may be a solution to the above problem.
Dr. Mayfield’s YouTube site is Knowing to Love (use his name also when searching).
For other videos at this blog by Dr. Mayfield, see Categories: John Owen; Calvin’s Institutes; Thomas Brooks.
Jeff Mayfield has served as senior pastor of Stony Hill Baptist Church since September 2013. Having attended church since birth, the Lord saved him during his second year of college. Soon after he was called into the Gospel Ministry and was prepared for that work through studies at Liberty University (B.A.) and the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary (M.Div. and Ph.D.).
Jeff is the husband of Adrienne and the father of nine children: Jude, Eli, Ava, Belle, Evangeline, Lillian, Phoebe, Solomon, and Calvin. Jeff enjoys preaching, biblical studies, history, theology, and mentoring other Christians. For fun he likes spending time with his family, hiking, running, biking, roasting coffee, and photography. [stonyhill.org]